My husband doesn’t know about my lesbian fantasies
Our agony aunt Mary Fenwick offers a new perspective on whatever is troubling you
Sex
New fiction: Nina Is Not OK
Comedian Shappi Khorsandi has written her first novel – and it’s a dark, disturbing but ultimately hopeful coming-of-age tale
I want to try new things in bed
If you want to make your sex life more adventurous, but your partner doesn’t, start by making curious conversation, says Esther Perel
Are you a selfish lover: what your score says about you as a couple
So, you’ve done our quiz to see what kind of lover you are, and got your partner to do it too. But what do your results mean for you as a pair? By Alain Héril
Film review: The New Girlfriend
Danielle Woodward reviews The New Girlfriend, directed by François Ozon
What to do if your partner is selfish or lazy in bed
What do you do if your partner has become selfish or lazy in bed? Esther Perel suggests how to start a conversation about what works for both of you…
What do you do if you feel too fat to be desirable?
You need to change your mindset rather than the number on the scales, says Esther Perel
You don’t have to fake it
What happens when you’ve been faking orgasm, and your sex life is not fulfilling? It is possible to turn a page and write a new script, writes Esther Perel
Here’s a new way to increase your enjoyment in the bedroom…
Want to hot up your experience between the sheets? Try this surprising (and affordable!) tip…
Distinguish between invitation and demand
Sex makes babies, so it’s ironic that, when they arrive, babies can deliver such a fatal erotic blow to a relationship. But there are ways to keep the spark alive, says Esther Perel
